"When I was a kid growing up, being from the South, and my first experience, my first kiss was with a girl in middle school. And no one could understand, in Nashville, saying that," she said. "So I had that relationship. And I was one of the only kids on Disney that would come out and say that I supported all my gay friends. No one would really say that, so that was always really important to me. To find what mattered to me."
Cyrus has discussed her self-discovery before. She told Vanity Fair that she started exploring in "fifth or sixth grade," adding that her first relationship was with another girl.
"My first relationship in my life was with a chick. I grew up in a very religious Southern family. The universe has always given me the power to know I'll be okay. Even at that time, when my parents didn't understand, I just felt that one day they were," she explained. "My whole life, I didn’t understand my own gender and my own sexuality. I always hated the word 'bisexual,' because that's even putting me in a box. I don't ever think about someone being a boy or someone being a girl."
That doesn't take anything away from Cyrus's current relationship status. She explained in a personal essay that marrying a man doesn't instantly make her some sort of "polite hetero lady" and that being queer is still a huge part of her identity. She's also looking at marriage as a new way to define what a relationship even means. By being a queer woman in a marriage with a heterosexual male, she's showing everyone that there's no real standard for a married couple.
"My relationship is very special to me, it is my home," she wrote. "I feel less misplaced when we are in the same room, no matter where that is, but just because something changes in my relationship doesn't mean something has to drastically change in my individuality."
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This article originally appeared on InStyle US.